To catch an iCheater... advice?

[learningman]

Thanks very much to everyone who replied... I hope I will find peace of mind. This is not a fun time. I appreciate all of your thoughts and wishes.

 

[sim667]

I'll go after her as a straight man, you can pretend to be a lesbian

I wrote a response to this, but it was NASTY, so for the OP's sake I didn't post it.

God bless english humor.

 

[7thson]

All true and good points (never said we were married, though). I'm going to consider any moves I make carefully. Thanks for responding- It makes me feel better to hear all angles on this.

Well, I am a little embarrassed I missed that. I guess I confused the other thread you referenced with yours. Sorry.

 

[WhiteIphone5]

I cannot get physical access to the phone- she guards it with her

Why not? If she's not hiding anything, there should be no problem about at her iPhone. Yes you should respect her privacy, but try to just ask her and see if say " something doesn't work in your iPhone so you wanna Check on hers" if she acts strange and doesn't let you, start to get a little worried.

 

[CaptHenryMorgan]

what would a really tech-smart person do in this situation...

You: Leave and don't look back. You obviously don't trust her.

Her: Leave and don't look back. She obviously is looking around.

Neither of your are mature enough to be in a serious/committed relationship. Both of you need to grow up and move on.