I think it’s about the time to ditch iOS and switch back to a flip phone
Good luck. With all the carping about 'Mr Apple', and 'Cookie', Apple has been able to make their products a near must have. They all (generally) work so well together that when I think about dumping all Apple products, or even just the iPhone, I realize I can't. I'm stuck at their leisure and just hope that they don't roll over on me at some point.
Imagine if a truly inept and evil CEO took over. It would be easy to drive Apple off a cliff and the cost would be beyond epic. It's not like Peloton where if they fail, hundreds of thousands of bikes would be worthless, but it's close.
Apple at least responds to (most) severe glitches and tries to keep their (current) systems and services up to date. I remember the nightmare of the Windows Phone I had, and the vendor refusing to issue updates, and stalling on supporting OS updates. Heck, how many Android phones out there are even on the third most recent OS update? I would hope it's gotten better, but the last time I heard of those stats, I was horrified. In general, everything that I need the Apple products products to do, they do and do it really well. I wish they were more focused on the operation of things than the 'look and feel', but that's important too. And sideloading is not important to me at all. I need my stuff to work, and allowing people to potentially pollute their iDevices is asking for problems, and not just stability.
But, you do you. Dump iOS. Let us know how it goes? (I've thought it would be interesting, or entertaining(?) to see someone come up with a way to replace iOS on an iPhone. The odds are stacked against that ever happening, but it would be interesting...