What does that at all have to do with what I said? The average person in 2008/2009 did not then need 32GB, and rarely needed 8. Nor does the average person NOW need 32.
The fact a consumer grade system supports it has ZERO connection to if the average person NEEDS it. The average desktop right now can supoprt 128GB of RAM. Does that in someway mean that the average person NEEDS 128? No. The average person is still fine with 8. We are only recently(last 2-3 years) getting to the point that heavy Business/Office document users are making use of 16GB. And they are using MUCH larger documents than your typical home user.
This is the MacBook Pro forum. We're not average by definition.
But you wrote that "In fact, until very recently 8GB had been a maxed-out machine 13yrs ago." which isn't true.