ok, so I updated to the latest iphone and iTunes software and what happens. My apple froze. There is a black screen with a yellow exclamation sign saying that I need to connect my iphone to itunes...but it was connected! I read real quick on the macrumors homepage that the third party programs are locking the phone? I used iphoneringtonemaker, could that be why? What do I do. I am leaving for NY tomorrow and NEED my phone. Someone help!