My Mac Mini has run fine with 5 GB of RAM for the past three years; a 4 GB stick along side the original 1 GB. Others I know also have unequal RAM stick pairings, in various Macs, with no problem.
Equal paring may be optimal, but it is not essential. Go for the 8 GB stick, and get a total of 10 GB RAM.
This topic has been discussed many times on many forums.