I was talking to a friend and I just had my lesson as well. I lost my boyfriend, he was into "you and me" but I kept telling him: is not a "you or me, is an us". People do not know what that word means. People take sides within a relationship, there is not more "us". "Us" means: leaving everything behind because we are now our new agenda, we are the entity. Some people want to keep their path. They forget they can choose "my path or our path". The bedroom was not the problem, the cooking was not the problem, friends neither. He could have chosen me. There are no "us".