You don't use the screen while shooting on an SLR camera - you look through the 'tiny' viewfinder. The difference is, you're not looking at a 1cm wide display, you're looking through it and seeing exactly what the camera sees. It's effectively "infinite resolution" and actually quite "large" to look at compared to an actual screen.
The point is simply that no matter how good the optics and sensor are, if your shot is out of focus it doesn't help, and if your composition is bad it doesn't help. A larger screen helps both, and an SLR viewfinder is even better.
Actually when using an SLR that's been made in the last few years, many have live view ability to then use the screen. I use mine like that a lot when shooting low or up high. Good ones are 100% field of view too. In terms of resolution, the SLR review screens are far higher in resolution and allow for easy zooming in to see details of the images that are well beyond that of the iPad. Thus if you like to "chimp" and review images you can easily see if they are in focus. However, with proper technique combined with todays AF Systems, the OOF images are far and few between.