Im pretty sure CamTwist will work for this. http://www.macupdate.com/info.php/id/24275/camtwist
Its really for adding video effects, but does also have the ability to use a single video source for multiple applications simultaneously.
btw, if the video effects interest you, then you might like to know that the effects are quartz based, so any of the readily available iChat quartz effects can be added to this too, and vice versa.