It could be argued that VZW still made the wrong choice back in 06. Sure, they haven't lost any subscribers since the iphone release, however, if they had accepted the iPhone, then AT&T probably wouldn't exist today (or it would be relegated to a budget carrier status ala Sprint). Why Verizon decided to ignore Apple is absolutely astounding, even considering hindsight. Just from the success of the iPod, Verizon should have realized that Apple really had something big up their sleeve and should have certainly given them much more attention. So from a competitive standpoint, VZW lost big.
I understand the point you're making, but I disagree with it. Would you feel the same way about the G1 if this happened with VZW? Just because of the success of the google search engine doesn't mean their first entry into the phone world would be good, let alone great.
The terms Apple got out of AT&T were pretty harsh, and I'm glad VZW stood their ground and didn't roll over for Jobs. Sure, maybe some of Apple's demands could have been met, but they were asking way too much.