It isn't irresponsible at all. That word implies that it is somehow our responsibility to protect windows users.
If that's the way you want to think about it fine, then yes, I believe there is some responsibility we have to protect Windows users. Or at the very least, not do anything due to one's own ignorance to actively infect them.
Think of it this way: let's say someone sends you an infected file as part of a project, say a Word document or some Illustrator file or something. YOU don't care, because the virus can do your Mac no harm, right?
Let's say you now work on that file and pass it on to a friend or business associate using Windows, who will open the file and look at your work. The BEST outcome would be that this person has working antivirus software, detects the virus, and then replies back saying "Hey, you sent me an infected file!"
To which you'll likely respond with something like "tough luck, that's what you get for using Windows. Get a Mac!"
Okay fine. Best outcome: no spreading of the infection, and the worst that happens is that you come off like a careless jerk. In fact, that may even be a good thing, seeing as it may or may not be realistic, though it does nothing to improve the common Mac users' image as being snobbish and conceited.
But let's assume a less-than-best outcome: this person you send the file on to does NOT have AV software on their windows machine, and as you say "deserves" to get infected. Several outcomes can occur here:
1. They
may suffer data corruption due to poor virus code execution, and lose all of their work. Better hope you're not relying on them for any deadlines.
2. Unbeknownst to them, their infected machine becomes part of a botnet, and spews out spam messages hawking Viagra, fake rolex watches, and letters ostensibly from Robert Mugabe's ex-wife promising millions of "US dollars only," if you will participate in this rather shady financial transaction.
Do the people who have to contend with spam messages on a daily basis "deserve" this? I guess from your point of view, they do. I don't think
all of them do, however.
3. The same infected computer is part of a botnet that engages in running phishing scams, where people are duped into giving away their bank account information, social security numbers, and the like. The virus you passed on is now engaged in identity theft.
Do the ID theft victims deserve it? I guess from your point of view, if they were stupid enough to give up that info, then yes they did deserve. For me, it's not so cut and dry.
Bottom line: you might be comfortable shrugging all of this off. Me, not so much. Besides, even with all of the moral and ethical implications aside, I just don't like the idea of my Mac being... unclean.
In any case, I don't really care or not if someone "deserves" to be infected. What I'm more concerned about is that for all the talk of being somehow better protected because we use Macs, we're really not. We still have to put up with a lot of the same junk (spam, phishing attempts, DDoS attacks, etc) as everyone else thanks to infected Windows computers. I prefer to at least not contribute to the problem, if even indirectly.