Not that I’d advocate such a thing, but it’s well known Apple doesn’t verify online student orders ( hypothetically speaking if you’re worried they might you could order it in his name and keep a scan of this student ID)
In addition there are re-shipping companies like shipito that have addresses in OR (no tax) that can reship whatever you ship to them 😉
Whether reshipping would be worth it depends on what you’re buying luckily they have a shipping estimate calculator
( needs to guess at approx shipping dimensions & weight)
last time I reshipped something roughly the size and weight as 15” MBP it was about $40 and fedex but everyone is different