Ok . . . I will go into more detail.
When I insert a normal audio CD, I get the Firefox icon whether I have it set up in system preferences for it to go through Finder or iTunes.
When I insert a CD-RW, I get a normal icon when I have have it set up both ways mentioned above.
When I insert a CD-R whether burnt or blank, I get the Firefox icon with both ways.
Thanks for any and all help. I am assuming it is a preference file somewhere messed up.