So now I'm trying to figure out which SSDs don't suck. lol. Crucial? Intel X-25M and 510? Is that about it?
After closely following all issues SSD the last few months, I would agree with you... Crucial or Intel. Intel seems to have a little better reliability. Both Crucial and Intel provide a way to upgrade firmware on a Mac.
The X25-M has been replaced by the Intel 320, and that is a solid choice for a SATAII MacBook.
I would not obsess too much over benchmarks where one drive is ten percent faster than another. In day to day normal use, you will not be able to tell the difference among any of these top drives as far as performance.