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What Do You Do When A Friend Does a 180?
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Yeah, the night I made this thread, I "sat him down" and talked to him.. and we talked everything out for a few hours. We both overreacted to the situation (he got overly meanas a defense, I got overly sensitive), but we're better than okay now.
oops, forget what I said then
o rly!?./ That's wierd that you care about what a forum thinks than talking it out with your friend, fiance, or w/e. None of us know you (or xfifty)in real life (I don't think...), so what's the point, are you trying to clarify the rep you don't have with us?
Some relationships take years to build up. I think true love can exist somehow in "friend- to -friend-who-wants-more" situations. Experience has showed me some cases when a best-friend becomes part of the life of the other.
This takes time; however, the outcome is uncertain.
Go out, give his space and time. Check constantly, let him know about what is going on. You are not tied to him until he decides. I am sure he will be happy to know that you can be a really funny girl. Keep the friendship all along.
On the other hand, you may meet somebody else who shows that he cares for you. Then, it's your call. --> Have you seen that video of Everything but the Girl, I think it's "the future of the future" Then, probably one of you will end single for the rest of your lives. Which is ok, nothing wrong with being single as long you are not grumpy and bitching about it.
A love relationship is a beautiful thing to have. In the end, what you both need is TIME. I hope you both have enough time.
All the best!
This takes time; however, the outcome is uncertain.
Go out, give his space and time. Check constantly, let him know about what is going on. You are not tied to him until he decides. I am sure he will be happy to know that you can be a really funny girl. Keep the friendship all along.
On the other hand, you may meet somebody else who shows that he cares for you. Then, it's your call. --> Have you seen that video of Everything but the Girl, I think it's "the future of the future" Then, probably one of you will end single for the rest of your lives. Which is ok, nothing wrong with being single as long you are not grumpy and bitching about it.
A love relationship is a beautiful thing to have. In the end, what you both need is TIME. I hope you both have enough time.
All the best!