LOL!
Sorry, not laughing at you. My previous phone was an HTC Touch Pro. Plastic, except for the chrome band. Originally a high end business phone it saw a lot of drops, one from stomach height to sidewalk concrete where it slid on it's face about five feet. The last drop caused a bend in the chrome strip around the LCD.
So, compared to how this phone was by this point my iPhone 5 is in excellent condition. With my stupid mistakes excluded, I'm ok with the wear. It's all been finish issues. No dents or anything like that. The only other phone I have is a 3GS and that, while well taken care of by my sister, has a small crack in the back by the 30-pin port. So, compared to all of this I think my iPhone 5 is holding up well.
But I was never an iPhone 4/4S owner. Some people here swear by them. I can't speak to that because I never liked them enough to want one.
White? No. Not me. I prefer the black, 2001 monolith look. I don't mind the scuffing. My wife on the other hand, I just bought a white iPhone 5 for because she wanted white. Flawless out of the box.
I would definitely buy another black iPhone 5. I'll probably buy the one Apple releases next year when my contract is up.
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I had two phones with cameras with which to take pictures. The iPhone 3GS I had doesn't have a flash and the camera stinks. My Touch Pro has a better camera and it was dark. My point was just to provide an overview.