Another long on... short answer is it is merely a personal choice...
It is merely a choice I think. If you are going to stay in the standard zoom lens kind of focal lengths then there are options to maintain compactness. beyond the 70mm focal length then the laws of physics exert their supremacy and we get into negligible differences in the real world. I mean my Sony A7Rii in the hand is lighter than a D750 but is it really compelling enough to make me buy that for that reason specifically? no not really.
I had DSLRs and they never went anywhere with me. They orbited the house at a range of about 200yards. I usually took a Sony RX100 and made do because it was too much to carry the gear - at the time, I had a baby too so that didnt help - by the time you load up with their "essentials" there is no room left for anything other than dads wallet and car key...
About that time the Sony A7 came out and as there were no native lenses to choose from really, I ended up doing two things 1. I learned to shoot with primes as there were only a choice of 55 and 35 for a while with it. 2. I got into legacy lenses and in particular Leica glass (wow wasnt that a bad move for the wallet!).
Now I think I am just set in my ways, so continue to like mirrorless. I suppose I would use a DSLR just as much if that was what I shot today but for convenience for me, I can pack my Sony A7Rii, 70-200, 55mm and an adapted voigtlander lens in a tidy little messenger bag, or the Leica, the 50 and the 15mm Voigt. I am not a bag carrying type so the little messenger form factor works for me. Even more perfect is that I can hang the M round my neck, pocket a lens and mini tripod in my jacket pocket and not carry a bag... cant carry a DSLR round your neck all day easily.
I am not sure I like the DSLR way of working for me as manually focusing a lens on a DSLR is not as easy as on a mirrorless with focus peaking and live view. So I suppose I have got lazy too... DoF is an interesting one, yes Full Frame vs smaller lenses is a factor but once you get over your razor thin DoF for everything phase, then this becomes less compelling an argument.
I also think that a skilled practitioner with a crappy camera will always out shoot a numpty with a pro DSLR and all the trimmings so again, not sure it is about the camera so much anymore. It is a tool and the important thing is to learn your tools, learn their strengths and their weaknesses, learn to accommodate and adapt, then it is irrelevant what camera you have because you will be able to get the result you want.
I do fin that my GAS is more contained now that I have the Sony and the Leicas. Having said that the Leica M10 is rumoured to be launched on January 18th... so I may have a flare up of GAS on the 19th... thankfully I cant afford a new M and the gear I have got way out performs my capabilities.
To get back on point, I just think that once you move away from anything requiring a really long lens or the fastest most accurate run and gun capabilities then it is just a matter of personal preference. I like the Sony and the Leica for the fact that people who dont know cameras, think they aren't good ones and dont give them a second glance - kind of like dont wear a Rolex in the ghetto, wear an IWC because the toerags havent heard of IWC...
Funny moment, my wife's cousin came to visit from Australia and she brought her Canon 70D with her and her kit lens. Big, black, cumbersome, shoots it permanently on auto. I was rocking the M9 with the 50mm Summilux. I got to talking to her about her photography trying to get her to moveoff full auto and actually use her cameras capabilities, and stone me but half way through the conversation, she points at my camera and says, you know maybe you would get better pictures if you binned that old film camera and got something better like my Canon. I nearly fell over laughing. She had no clue what it was.
Anyway, since going mirrorless and being able to class Leica M in that category, I have no desire to go back to DSLRs but I dont think they are the answer to the future of photography anymore than a DSLR is... thats just my chosen weapon.
However..... it is fun to wind certain folks up on here about how superior the Sony system is compared to the "archaic" Canikon offerings...