I just came across this old thread. Hopefully you were able to buy your wife something amazing! I'm sure whatever you got her, she would be happy. She knows that its from your heart, thats all it matters. Even a planned date would be great. She sounds just like my mom that always says "I dont need anything." But I know she deserves something special! Which makes it so much harder for me! But, I always end up getting her shoes or clothes. She never says "no" to shopping.