Therefore you can not say that when dealing with morals money can not be included because I may use the perceived damage (in moentry terms) to be a deciding factor in whether or not something is right or wrong (i.e moral or immoral)
So petty theft is OK?
This seems like an odd scenario. I can't imagine this actually happening. But since some have said it has, well then I guess I'll believe it. Here's how I see it: If the fact you were not charged for it was because the employee decided to give it to you as a gift or it was understood that payment was not required, then you're fine. No need to pay. However if the employee made a mistake and somehow forgot to charge you for the item (pretty freakin' stupid employee, but anyway...) then I believe you are morally obligated to return to the store and pay for the item. Whatever you decide to do, someone has to pay for the item. If you don't pay for it then it will come out of the employee's check or will get absorbed into the store and passed on to other customers in the form of higher prices. Nothing is really free in this world...
Agreed. If everyone agrees it's a store gift to you, then it's obviously free. If an employee made a mistake, or this is due to a lack of communication between the two stores, then I say you pay for it. Everyone makes mistakes. If I make a mistake (ie: lose my wallet, leave my car door unlocked, etc), I don't expect everyone who notices to take advantage. I also wouldn't be surprised if someone did, and wouldn't blame anyone but myself. It is my fault, after all. However, morally speaking, if I found someone's wallet sitting on a bus seat, or in the Library, I would try to return it. It's not mine, and again, everyone makes mistakes and needs a little help.
I have done that plenty of times, and people have done tried to return things to me when I lost something.
I don't understand this Western world mentality of "You made a mistake, and I'm going to pounce on it. It's every man for themselves."