Ok, i really need some advise before I go mad. My boyfiend of 8 yrs had survived an accident last Sept- he recently survived another one, only this time with my car. My issue is that everyone is so concerned about his wellbeing and not bothered about how I feel. I just lost my first car & have no way of getting to work. I think what makes me feel worse is that I didn't want him to use my car the day he had the accident. I specifically told him as much but he went right ahead. This is a guy with a seriously bad womanising record under his belt- which I was willing to bear. But now I'm not so sure... Sometimes I serioulsy consider leaving him- I can't take all this drama he comes with. So my question to you is, "What would you do"??? Am I so bad for feeling this way about a brand new car I'd only had for 7 months??????