Thanks for your help! Now I come to think of it , I have installed Xcode 4 recently. However, Apple says to resolve my issue I have to install the latest iTunes version. I already run the latest , and the issue is still there.
Then they go on to say to reset sync services with a line in Terminal. I've tried that but this is what terminal returns:
Last login: Tue Jun 14 12:35:21 on console
Michel-van-der-Veens-iMac:~ Michel$ /System/Library/Frameworks/SyncServices.framework/Versions/A/Resources/resetsync.pl reset
subarg =
Running reset
No matching processes belonging to you were found
No matching processes belonging to you were found
unlinking and writing version 0 into /Users/Michel/Library/Application Support/SyncServices/Local/data.version
2011-06-16 10:48:01.683 defaults[6734:903]
There is no (UpgradedbTries) default for the (com.apple.SyncServer) domain.
Defaults have not been changed.
Michel-van-der-Veens-iMac:~ Michel$
So I guess I am stuck again?