Heritage is usually the last thing i identify myself by to be honest
I'm guessing that may have something to do with your appearance because...
When clients at work ask me "where I'm from," I respond, "Connecticut," without missing a beat.
Same. Well, I'm not from CT, and I haven't any clients, but if I'm traveling abroad or whatnot, and folks ask where I'm from, I'll say "America" and if they reply, "Nooo, where are you
from?" I'll then say, "Cal-i-fornia, USA."
😛
So I'm guessing,
dukebound that one's connection to their heritage can easily depend on their appearance and how others perceive them, as well as their own upbringing and cultural experiences. I sure don't look "white," and yes, I look Asian. I've been raised with a lot of my parents' more traditional Chinese values, learned Mandarin, celebrated Chinese traditions and holidays, and so yes, I do feel a connection to my heritage. Which isn't to say that I'm not similar to
aprilgrey in that I do see quite a bit of a departure in my own belief system and world views from my parents. I am most certainly more Americanized than they.
I'm 100% Chinese. (...So does that make me part Taiwanese?)
My heritage is 100% Chinese and I'm an ABC (American Born Chinese), too. As for the mainland vs. Taiwan conflict, I asked my parents (who were born in China and Taiwan but both raised in Taiwan) and they explained that it just depends on a given person's politics. Some feel very passionately that Taiwan is completely different and whatnot and that they are
Taiwanese and not Chinese. My parents still feel that they are Chinese. (Of course, the dad still goes back to Taiwan to vote in the big elections
😛)