kinda a tangent but i think its interesting how people identify themselves. Like iBlue, I identify and take the greatest pride in the state im from....
I'm guessing that may have something to do with your appearance because...Heritage is usually the last thing i identify myself by to be honest
Same. Well, I'm not from CT, and I haven't any clients, but if I'm traveling abroad or whatnot, and folks ask where I'm from, I'll say "America" and if they reply, "Nooo, where are you from?" I'll then say, "Cal-i-fornia, USA."When clients at work ask me "where I'm from," I respond, "Connecticut," without missing a beat.
My heritage is 100% Chinese and I'm an ABC (American Born Chinese), too. As for the mainland vs. Taiwan conflict, I asked my parents (who were born in China and Taiwan but both raised in Taiwan) and they explained that it just depends on a given person's politics. Some feel very passionately that Taiwan is completely different and whatnot and that they are Taiwanese and not Chinese. My parents still feel that they are Chinese. (Of course, the dad still goes back to Taiwan to vote in the big electionsI'm 100% Chinese. (...So does that make me part Taiwanese?)
I'm guessing that may have something to do with your appearance because...
Same. Well, I'm not from CT, and I haven't any clients, but if I'm traveling abroad or whatnot, and folks ask where I'm from, I'll say "America" and if they reply, "Nooo, where are you from?" I'll then say, "Cal-i-fornia, USA."![]()
So I'm guessing, dukebound that one's connection to their heritage can easily depend on their appearance and how others perceive them, as well as their own upbringing and cultural experiences. I sure don't look "white," and yes, I look Asian. I've been raised with a lot of my parents' more traditional Chinese values, learned Mandarin, celebrated Chinese traditions and holidays, and so yes, I do feel a connection to my heritage. Which isn't to say that I'm not similar to aprilgrey in that I do see quite a bit of a departure in my own belief system and world views from my parents. I am most certainly more Americanized than they.
I feel a greater kinship to Presidents Washington and Lincoln, Generals Sherman and Patton than I do to any of the significant figures in Indian history.
My heritage is 100% Chinese and I'm an ABC (American Born Chinese), too. As for the mainland vs. Taiwan conflict, I asked my parents (who were born in China and Taiwan but both raised in Taiwan) and they explained that it just depends on a given person's politics. Some feel very passionately that Taiwan is completely different and whatnot and that they are Taiwanese and not Chinese. My parents still feel that they are Chinese. (Of course, the dad still goes back to Taiwan to vote in the big elections)