But If I decide to use lightroom, and not aperture, does the recomendation change?
No.
Keep the 15" PB for the weddings, and get the iMac. In 2 years, you can sell it, and get another if you want.
If the 15" PB finally breaks down in this time, one option for you is to get one of those portable picture viewer machines that are essentially an external harddisk with a 3.5" LCD attached. You can view the photos if you want, and the capacity of these things is quite high. HP makes a few models.
All the recomendations seem to center on aperture as the program I will use. But Lightroom seems to do what I need. And if it's true that it is not gpu dependant, how will it run any faster on an Imac? And what makes 24" faster then the 20"? Outside the graphics card again.
I actually prefer Lightroom over Aperture in many ways. Lightroom is a faster program than Aperture, and v1.0 is optimized (unlike the Beta) and reportedly runs much much faster than Beta 4. Download the trial version of LR v1.0 in mid-February.
On the other hand, Apple has made Aperture faster and faster after each update, and while version 1.5 is still not blazing fast, it may catch up with Lightroom one day. I don't know. Right now, it'd be great if Aperture wasn't as resource hungry as Lightroom Beta 4.
Anyway, I think Lightroom will be faster on the iMac and Mac Pro, but both programs will realistically do what you want to do.
If it makes you feel better, I'm going to possibly switch to Aperture and I only have a MacBook. I probably won't, but lets pretend I will.
I don't handle the quantity that you do, so I can use Aperture on a MacBook and survive. I don't think you can.