What kind of stands are you using for the 12.9”?
I'm using this one:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tablift-Ta...qid=1500902890&sr=8-5&keywords=iPad+bed+stand
It works very well, but the 12.9 (unlike other sizes) also requires the use of a slim hard case with this stand. I use this one:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Generation...&qid=1500903208&sr=1-1&keywords=ESR+case+12.9
I don't like having a case on for normal use, so I only tend to put in on when using the stand, which can be a bit of a pain. But it does make for a much better viewing experience, IMHO. The stand is not cheap, but it is well made.
I love watching the 12.9 in bed. Do it all the time.
I guess this is something that varies a lot from person to person. I'm definitely someone who tends to sit nearer the back when I go to the cinema. I also worry that having such a big, bright screen too close to my face will damage my eyes, but I'm admittedly a bit paranoid about that sort of thing!
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