Ok, I think that is because it is GMail. If that is the case, how do I delete the archived emails? Where do I find the archived emails to ultimately delete them?
You have to go into the mail settings and choose gmail act and turn off archive mail. Easy fix.
Sorry but that won't work. Do a search here and you will find its Gmail's implementation of exchange that causes deleted email to be archived.
Not correct. The fix works if you setup gmail via imap. If you set it up as exchange, then it will not work.
If it was setup via Gmail/imap then the delete button DOES delete, thus if some one is 'deleting' and it is actually archiving they are obviously using exchange - so the poster was correct.
Using exchange under advanced i just changed the deleted mailbox to trash and anything deleted gets moved there when i delete in the mail.app. Works for me...