So, there's this girl, who I don't want to say I've "fallen for" persay, but I know that she likes me, I know that she's a great kisser, I know that I like her, and I definitely know that I would want to be in some sort of relationship with her. I elaborated as much to her. But I've found out that she is not into the idea of getting into a big relationship right now. I think that the idea of getting into something that might lead into a big relationship right now (her last one didn't end up too well for her) is not appealing to her. God, this would all be a lot easier if a) she didn't say she liked me, b) were a bad kisser, c) weren't so compatable with me, and d) if I were less neurotic. I'm another guy on this board, so I'm posting under this name lest people I know run across this and... things get funky. I have discussed all this madness with about 5 different people already, but it's the dead of night, I just found out that she likes me but doesn't want to date me, and I feel kind of like crap. If anyone has an honest to god useful suggestion, that would be way cool.