Checked out the XR yesterday, totally happy with the display, colors, everything - except this. On my obviously 3D Touch less 2018 iPad, I can long press lock screen notifications and get quick reply and other actionable options. But for some reason this is not an option on the XR. What gives? I use this a ton and is basically forcing my hand into an XS. Would much rather use the XR size and cost. Super frustrating.