I've noticed this too lately.
I think it's just a fad where for some reason people just assume oh slow computer = ram
It's really stupid and I have no idea where this stemmed from.
Clients always ask for more ram to "make it faster"
I assume because it has always been one of the easiest to upgrade parts, it's been something people have latched on to as almost like a scapegoat.
I was wondering this recently too - of where did this idea stem from?
I will say tho, 8gb on an optimized system like mac and 8gb on windows is totally different.
Chrome too is known to be a memory hog, I'm confident that same tab in safari for Mac or even Firefox / opera may consume less ram
I believe what the backlash is about is that starting macbooks since maybe 2015 have had 8gb ram; people just wanna see some generational improvement, and they're not wrong on that front. But that is strictly looking at storage. Since then it has went from DDR3 to DDR4 and the new unified memory runs with the m1 runs at 4266 mt/s which is great. However, being unified memory as well, it means that the gpu needs some too, similar to some intel integrated graphics of the past.
With that being said, while 12gb starting or something like that would be nice, 8gb is fine for most users and so apple will keep it that way. Maybe the m2 mbp should start with 16gb ram, that would be a nice touch.
Reminds me how Apple took quite some time to raise the base iPhone storage, but everyone's glad they did.