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Mac'nCheese

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Why does it seem like everyone thinks everyone else wants to the tv or radio so loud. I’m talking about the gym at work where everybody is wearing head phones but the trainer has the music so loud you can barely hear what u want to hear. I always ask the few people who are there if they mind if I ask for it to be lowered and they always please!!! Now, it’s 1AM and I’m in the ER waiting room at a children’s hospital and the tv is blaring! For who? No one is watching it and even if they are, they can hear it! So I asked for it to be lowered and everyone smiled. Why are they so afraid to ask when is what they want? Like we all need headaches at 1AM?

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If you want to buy some good stock... invest in hearing aid companies. Most young folks blast their music so loud that it will result in hearing loss as they get older. Which is why at public places music or TVs are playing loudly. The folks that control the volume probably need it that loud so they can hear it well enough. When I mention young folks that includes not only teen agers but folks in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Yeah, I'm ancient but I still have good hearing!
 
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No, I assume that it is because some of these establishments don't want you doing anything so silly as talking to one another, let alone listening to one another - that may take time, interfere with profits - if you cannot talk, and cannot listen, you will drink. And maybe drink some more.

But, yes: I have also asked for the volume too the TV to be reduced in pubs, restaurants, hospitals and hotels.
 
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If you want to buy some good stock... invest in hearing aid companies. Most young folks blast their music so loud that it will result in hearing loss as they get older. Which is why at public places music or TVs are playing loudly. The folks that control the volume probably need it that loud so they can hear it well enough. When I mention young folks that includes not only teen agers but folks in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Yeah, I'm ancient but I still have good hearing!
Perhaps.

I often find though that whenever I pass a Baby Boomer (55+) wearing headphones or earbuds I can usually hear their music.
 
No, I assume that it is because some of these establishments don't want you doing anything so silly as talking to one another, let alone listening to one another - that may take time, interfere with profits - if you cannot talk, and cannot listen, you will drink. And maybe drink some more.

But, yes: I have also asked for the volume too the TV to be reduced in pubs, restaurants, hospitals and hotels.
The last time we ate at the Texas Roadhouse, I thanked them because for once they had the music off, which is normally so loud it’s challenging to have a conversation. It’s the same reason, I don’t want live music during dinner, reminded of the Mexican place we frequently avoid on Friday because of the mariachi band that stands next to your table and blasts you. ;)
 
The last time we ate at the Texas Roadhouse, I thanked them because for once they had the music off, which is normally so loud it’s challenging to have a conversation. It’s the same reason, I don’t want live music during dinner, reminded of the Mexican place we frequently avoid on Friday because of the mariachi band that stands next to your table and blasts you. ;)

Music should take the form of a background sound in a public place (unless you are actually attending a concert) and should not be so dominant that you cannot hear yourself speak or your dining partner reply when attempting the art of conversation over dinner (or in a pub).

Likewise, I cannot abide it if a TV with a sports event drowns out all other possibilities of conversation; by all means have the TV on, but not to the exclusion of everything else.

Yes, I love those places where there is no background noise, just the gentle hum of conversation.
 
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Music should take the form of a background sound in a public place (unless you are actually attending a concert) and should not be so dominant that you cannot hear yourself speak or your dining partner reply when attempting the art of conversation over dinner (or in a pub).

Likewise, I cannot abide it if a TV with a sports event drowns out all other possibilities of conversation; by all means have the TV on, but not to the exclusion of everything else.

Yes, I love those places where there is no background noise, just the gentle hum of conversation.
I’ve noticed that when you pack an open space with people eating dinner, even that becomes a din to practically have to shout over.
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simply because you are TOO OLD!
How old are you?? :p We started going out earlier about 3 decades ago because, we wanted to beat the crowd, lines and noise. I’ll remind you this is dinner action, not night clubbing, where I imagine wall to wall people is a plus. ;)
 
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The last time we ate at the Texas Roadhouse, I thanked them because for once they had the music off, which is normally so loud it’s challenging to have a conversation. It’s the same reason, I don’t want live music during dinner, reminded of the Mexican place we frequently avoid on Friday because of the mariachi band that stands next to your table and blasts you. ;)
There's a Texas Roadhouse about ten minutes from where we live. Haven't been there in quite a while as it's not a place we frequent. But every so often my dad drops in from California and it's convenient to go there.

Never had an issue with music or loudness or anything there simply because everytime we go the place is practically empty. I have to suspect that we manage to show up during off hours all the time because the restaurant has remained in business for years now so it can't be because no one goes there.
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Music should take the form of a background sound in a public place (unless you are actually attending a concert) and should not be so dominant that you cannot hear yourself speak or your dining partner reply when attempting the art of conversation over dinner (or in a pub).
Way back in 1995 when I started dating my wife, Starbucks was new in California as well as the Starbucks 'experience'.

We used to drive 45 minutes to get to the one Starbucks that existed in our area for the coffee and the ambiance. Part of that was the chairs, the lighting, the decor and most importantly the music. Starbucks had it right back then.

Of course by the late 90s their commericalization had kicked in and we begin to experience the Starbucks 'attitude' where the baristas arrogance because they worked there kicked in by mistreating the customer. The whole 'experience' and ambiance thing was gone by 2003 or so and it became just another coffee shop.

At that point the music was playing just for background but you could never hear it because of the blenders and the crowd noise. Now it's just noisy period any time you go in there. We left Starbucks for other reasons, but even our local coffee shop doesn't bother with music. Just too many people talking. Which is something I always find wierd now. So many people go to Starbucks, get their order and leave. Yet it still manages to be full and loud. And if you're there at the wrong time of day it's also in need of being cleaned up.

I miss that particular experience, although I was glad to be able to share it with my wife when it existed.
 
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I refuse to go out to eat anymore because the food is tastless or overpriced, scant and no one plays music (loud or background) anymore, just these noises with flatline beats and incoherent voices.
 
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