To PhilA and Mac2Me, thanks for your response.
What’s bugging me is the inconsistency. If it was a matter of selecting the correct setting, then it should either work all the time or none of the time for both Mail and Messages. But in my situation, both Mail and Messages work some of the time.
I logged my observations today, see emails received chart below. I did not get any Messages today. These results are typical of the previous two days although I did get Messages on day 1 & 2.. The only thing different today is the last item listed, from Amazon. It pinged my mac and then my watch but NOT my phone. That’s the first time that has happened. I’m on wifi with cellular turned off. The audible sequence with a new email is always: Mac - iPhone - watch. Sometimes a 15 minute delay between Mac and iPhone alert probably due to my 15 min Push setting. I’ve been at a desk all day the last 3 days and have had the phone, mac and watch within 24” of each other the whole time except for restroom breaks.
The only two Apps I am concerned about getting notifications for are Messages and Mail. The notifications on the 6s are enabled for both Mail and Messages, both set for tone alert. When checking notifications status for the Watch, they are all default set to Mirror. I used this setting on day 1 of ownership. On day 2, I switched them to Custom and enabled all three choices. This morning I set them back to Mirror. I did a power down on both phone and watch today. I’ve had just one call on the phone and otherwise have not used it so my logging info is accurate, I wasn’t distracted with being on the phone all day and no distractions at home office. In some other areas of this forum from spring and early summer, I read that only the phone or the watch alerts/notifies but not both. So if the phone is active (not sleeping or powered off) the Mail alert will skip the phone and go the watch, but if the phone is on and not resting, then only the phone will get the alert/notification and not send it to the watch also. I have not experienced this mutual exclusivity with my phone and watch. It’s always been both except for the watch only notification for the first time in the last three days from Amazon.
VIP and Key Contacts - I don’t have any of these or at least I have never set them up. If they set themselves automatically based on history/frequency, it does not correlate with the sources I have received pings & vibrate from on the watch. I hope someone has some ideas…I’m a bit obsessed about this glitch right now.Thanks Tim
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summary: 13 emails received, all of them pinged the Mac, 12 pinged the phone and 4 pinged and vibed the watch. The last one was the anomaly. It pinged the Mac and then the watch, skipping the phone and per below that same thing just happened 3 more times.
while trying to get this chart somewhat readable I got 3 new emails and all came in like the one from Amazon. Mac alert, no iPhone alert, watch ping and vibrate. The iPhone is powered on but at rest. It keeps changing...gotta love a moving target.