I moderate on several websites as large as this site and I am dumbfounded at how you guys allow the flaming that goes on here which is a direct violation of your own rules...
You call this a bannable offense but there are a number of threads that this has been going on in them with no response. It seems that you guys rarely step in to control it and I can tell you that you are losing members because of it. I know of several people that have decided not to make this a home because of the foul attitudes here.
So the question is, are you guys just under staffed or do you simply not care?
1.Insults. Direct personal insult of another forum member (e.g., "You are an idiot.") and other name-calling. Why? Because this isn't grade school. People should be able to discuss or even dispute other's posts without insulting people. You may dispute somebody's opinion but not attack/flame the person who stated it. There are a lot of other non-direct-personal insults that won't necessary get you banned instantly, but depending on the context/nature may lead to post editing, post deletion, warnings, or time-outs. They include telling people to shut up and being extremely or repeatedly rude or sarcastic. Bottom line -- don't try to tick off others and don't make discussions unnecessarily personal. If somebody else insults you, report their post; their post does not give you a license to break the rules by returning their insults. Although we do not read Private Messages sent between forum members, the rules for appropriate and inappropriate content apply to them as well.
2.Harassment. Purposely intimidating a particular member, harassing them, sending them rude or unwanted private messages, etc. This includes personal attacks on moderators for doing their jobs.
You call this a bannable offense but there are a number of threads that this has been going on in them with no response. It seems that you guys rarely step in to control it and I can tell you that you are losing members because of it. I know of several people that have decided not to make this a home because of the foul attitudes here.
So the question is, are you guys just under staffed or do you simply not care?