This is the pinnacle of first world problems.
I honestly don't understand the misery this is causing people. There is some serious hyperbole floating around about the "issues" this is causing. If you want to find the most miserable tech people around, look no further than these forums. I think my favorite usage for this feature so far is when I'm driving. It's made navigating between music and Apple Maps significantly safer. Everyone complained that the notch was too big. So they make it significantly smaller and add some usable functionality to it and people still complain that it's too big. Some people are never happy with anything. Maybe take up a new hobby. Find something that makes you happy if this is making you so miserable. Or if ... year after year ... you keep wanting Apple to do what Android phones have been doing for years, maybe just get an Android phone. The features you are wanting now are already available in most Android flagships. They have pinhole cameras, some even have cameras under the display, high refresh rates, 4k screens, etc.
Despite the hate for the pill, everyone I've talked to that has the 14 now loves it. Marques Brownlee loves it. Lots of people love it. It's not going anywhere. People are ordering the Pros in huge numbers, so much so that they're reducing production of the non-Pro phones because people just don't want them as much as the Pros.
My favorite complaint was that it "cuts into video" when, in fact, the phone does the exact same thing as it did before with the previous notch where video is cut off right before the actual space where the notch is, so most of the time it's not even in the way, but with the option to expand the screen to full size if you want. And it's far less annoying than the notch was even when it's full screen, but that's just me. I don't see them getting rid of the pill anytime soon. Android phones don't have all the things the iPhone does in the front so they can't do a pinhole right now. You could be waiting years for another change, if they ever even change it at all. I'm honestly loving the smaller notch and the extended integration of functionality it provides with clever software.
There are a lot of awful things going on in the world right now. And this is what you guys are choosing to focus on? I get that this is a open discussion forum to air complaints, but look around you to what's going in the world. Shift your priorities. Find happiness in simpler things. Try to be grateful for the luxuries you are able to afford, the lives you are able to live that hundreds of millions of people can only dream of. Maybe instead of complaining about the phone, make memories with it. Share it with others. This forum is getting depressing lately.