if you check aol, you might be able to do forwarding from your aol account to your gmail account so it pushes to your iphone. Not a wonderful solution but i mean it may work if you can forward your emails to gmail. Gotta go with everyone else though....didnt know people still use aol
Edit: i forgot to say how i have my gmail account both from school and personal pushing to my mobile me so i know gmail could do forwarding....just not positive on aol