That's fine, to each his own.
And i can easily say about your post "well that post is from one user on MacRumors who thinks he knows AT&T's policy but doesn't even work at AT&T of all people

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My cousin's Husband works for AT&T and not in a customer service position and when i asked him about the 4s (before it was released) i asked if they would move up dates because mine was about 2 months off from the release date and he said "i would think they will because that's what they did last year, but it's Apple's call, not ours"
BUT even that comment alone doesn't mean it was 100% true.
So unless you are a higher up in AT&T you cannot for sure say whether it's apple's call or AT&T's call to move up the upgrade dates.