I completely agree. It's definitely a 'generational' gap here @ MR. Those of us over 30/40 years old, those under 25 (maybe even 20). I still remember how incredibly excited I was with my first 'Color' monitor for my Apple IIc
The iPad 3 is a phenomenal tablet. As is the Mini. As well...they perform almost in parity. When stripped down to the bare benchmarking--iPad 2/3 and Mini are almost all identical. I don't think ANY app development group will abandon this treasure trove any time in the near future. The RAM isn't atrocious...not by a long shot. It's very fluid...very quick and easily plays all the 'games' on the App Store. For productivity apps, it's excellent...and for portability, it's unrivaled IMO. Some times small sacrifices have to be made to keep the size/weight and function within a certain parameter. RAM was one of those choices made by Apple in the first generation Mini. However...so many of them sold, as well as iPad 2 still being sold...and PLENTY of the 'new' iPad 3s are in the wild. To abandon development for this population any time in the near future would be a silly idea!
In response to the OP...I'll be the odd man out. I will definitely buy the new mini regardless of display resolution or inclusion or 'retina' PPI--I'll explain...
I've got an original iPad, iPad 2, iPad 4 and the Mini. We've also got a pair of 4s for our business and that's their only function. I literally sold my iPad 3 last week on Craigslist after owning the iPad 4 and Mini since launch. My wife didn't care about the retina display and loves her iPad 2. It's set up just the way she wants and she doesn't care to 'upgrade' at this time. Our son 'owns' the original iPad and it's perfect for him (he's 8). The iPad Mini has become our 'family' iPad. We use it around the house and take it out on the road--it's getting a TON of usage. Where-as the bigger iPads have become more of our own personal tablets. Each of our own email accounts, Facebook, Twitter, RSS readers....my wife handles all of the business end functions of our business...I, the product. Both of us have our own apps according to our jobs (on the big iPads). Our son enjoys his iPad for different education software, an occasional NetFlix or YouTube session, games and books.
I'm the geek in the family. I do enjoy the 'latest' and 'greatest'. I've yet to be let down by
any of Apple's iOS releases. For me, every iteration has been a nice upgrade...even the simple 's' updates (I've owned each iPhone, passing the older version to my wife or updating/selling older version), and the iPad 4 (from the 3)...a significant upgrade IMO from my iPad 3. I only lost about $145 on the sale of the iPad 3 and we owned it for just shy of 12 months! Not bad---$10/month. The new Mini...regardless of it's resolution or RAM or processor...it's sure to be a nice update. I'm of the belief that Apple WILL try to get a retina screen in there at some point...but I'm not convinced it will be the 2013 version of the Mini. I think they'll more likely update processing, RAM and GPU for more of an 'S' update to the Mini and shoot for a Retina screen in 2014 maintaining the same beloved 10 hour mark we've all grown accustomed to...unplugged!
To each their own...but Apple is a hobby of mine. I don't mind losing a few bucks each year on the iOS device of the year. I buy them, use them (daily and constantly!!!), and most of all--our family
enjoys them!