I'm still using my 2010 Macbook Air with 2GB RAM, and I'm currently running OS X Mavericks perfectly fine. This is my main machine, and I hardly notice the RAM limitations in everyday usage as a graduate student; the only time I notice it is when I'm trying to multitask with heavy apps (which is very rare).
However, if I were purchasing a new MacBook Air (which I am planning in 2014), I would not consider anything less than 8GB. The money I would save by choosing a lower RAM option is not enough to justify it.
In the same boat and agree. The 2GB is less of an issue with an SSD and while I like the sound of the extra battery life I would get with Haswell, I am going to wait for Broadwell, which will give a similar boost again (although Apple will probably reduce the battery so it can pursue its aim of thin at all costs). Mavericks has helped me to eke at least another year of useful life out of this working machine.
I wouldn't necessarily plump for 8GB unless I thought I needed it. As the previous posted said resale values tend to undervalue add ons, like extra RAM, beefed up cpus etc.