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My grandpa worked for a government contractor running a multi-million dollar research lab developing secret stuffs for NATO allies. He always had higher-end computers at his house that were fun to play with. He had the newest modems before anyone else had them, CD burners that came in these weird cartridges before practically anyone knew what a CD burner was, a home color printer that had to have been pretty early tech as it had the holes down the side you had to tear off, and even a photo scanner built into his 386 tower that pulled in 4x6 photos that was pretty crazy. Even my dad also had some pretty decent computers that he did CAD work on. These memories are from the late 80s onwards. So I was exposed to this stuff as a toddler and child. Even my elementary school had some Macs and we would play games like Oregon Trail. I played lots of games on 5 1/4" floppy disk (and later on like 10 3 1/2" floppy disks). Besides educational games we also had some 80s arcade games. I remember my grandpa's old tower on Windows 3.1 running this 3D rendered game with this bird creature. My grandpa always said back then that computers blow away Nintendo for games and showed me that 3D bird game as proof. I wish I could remember what it was called. It might have been more of an animation than a game. My grandpa bought me tons of educational games where you could explore the human body in 3D and do things like fly-throughs of the heart and I remember this one 3D hand model that had layers for muscles, nerves and bone that was really fun to play with. I had another one for the space and the space shuttle, one that was an interactive encyclopedia, and another that was about meteorology. We got internet access at my home in 1996 when I was starting middle school. I feel like it definitely opened up a world of possibilities to me and let me discover what my passions are. I also had a Gameboy when I was 5 or 6, and Nintendo that my parents would play with me. In 1999 my grandpa bought me a digital camera for Christmas and it changed my life.

I think the key thing is to limit access to the devices. My parents were pretty good about balancing things and making sure that I went outside to play with my friends in the neighborhood. I would ride my bike all over, climb trees, play hide and seek, build forts. But I would also geek out. A year or two after we got internet access around 1997, when I was 12, I started learning how to code websites and make things in Photoshop. My dad was taking a course at the local community college on HTML and I started reading his books. I also started learning how to program. Today I do design for print, apps and the web (including coding), along with photography for my job. So I would say technology had a big impact on my life and who knows where I would be today without it. Even with all of this tech in my life I'm still a fairly well-adjusted person. Though I see some millennials that are a few years younger than me that just freak out all the time about the dumbest crap. All they do is whine constantly about everything and many of them lack any real skills—be it job skills or people skills. It might be technology related, as in people letting technology babysit their kids which is totally wrong. As with most things in life, a proper balance is required. My wife is pregnant with our first child and when she's a toddler I'm going to get a Mini (or give her an old Mini) and one of those protective, child-proof cases and put restrictions on it and some educational apps to play with. But it will only be a small part of her childhood experience. Honestly, when I think back about what I loved doing most in childhood it was drawing on the back of waste copy paper my dad would bring home from work, running around with my friends until dark, and creating crazy things with my legos. It does kind of scare me thinking about the crazy connected world that my child is being born into. She will never know a time without all of this data flying through the air. Will she ever take time to be at peace with herself, to travel out into nature and relax, or will she feel pressure to always be connected and working when she is older?
 
What the hell is Aspie?
I had to google that one.
FFS, it's called Asperger syndrome/disorder; it's some form of autism. It's kind of a big deal, calling it aspie sounds fun and cute. Well, it isn't.
Wake up and face his problem like a man![COLOR=[/QUOTE]

First, there is nothing 'cute' about it but those in the community call it this.

Second I am not a man and just who the hell do you think you are lecturing to someone on a tech forum. You have no idea what his life, his parents life nor his grandparents lives (my husband and myself) are like, what we do nor how we handle it.

So get off your high horse.
 
Personally I cringe more when I see college/high school kids with quad-core, maxed out 15" rmbp's. They really need a near $3000 computer to gchat and skype and write papers?

I cringe when people get their panties in a bunch over what someone else has/is doing.
 
My 3 year uses my iPad. It has taught him so much.

Don't be afraid of the digital age. Embrace it!
 
You may need to look back at history because carrying around "technology" at such a young age is NOT something new at all. It only is more noticeable because the technology we see the kids carrying has become more and more desirable to us as adults. :D

Ah yes, I have fond memories of my $729 Etch A Skech! :p

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I have to say that when someone fails engage in any kind of conversation and has to pull out the stupid term "haters gonna hate"...

When "haters gonna hate" comes out, chances are you are being trolled. That's usually when I hit the ignore button.

To write off a person who believes that children are coddled more today than ever before as a guy who was mistreated during childhood is short sighted and ignorant.

See above.

But thanks of sticking up for me.

Truth be told, I'm not as down on kids as I come across. There are plenty of amazing kids out there, raised by smart parents. But the kids that suck today suck harder than ever, and the coddling is highly symptomatic.
 
By age 5, I was banging away on an Atari 800 copying Basic programs from a book. I suspect that it cost well more than an iPad adjusted for inflation. Granted, I was't walking around with it, but my older brother and I had access to use it as much as we wanted. We were a middle class family.

I think it is just that iPads are very visible in today's culture. That, and someone has to show grandma how the thing works. My two kids (5 and 2) are both experts on the old 1st Gen iPad they primarily get to use.
 
Nothing has changed, really

Our ancestors started with rocks and sticks, and their kids wanted them, then came metal toys, books, then fast forward to modern days, electronics.

Wait a few decades, then all this will be like stick and stones, graffiti will becomes cave paintings.
 
Discussions about kids and technology always generate a lot of highly polarized opinions. I'm not one of those people. I believe in balance. Sometimes it's necessary to be firm, and sometimes it's okay to let kids be kids. And technology is not "bad for kids". I think it's misguided to keep them from it, because the future will center on technology and they might as well be comfortable and prepared for it. Again, it's just about striking a good balance.

My five year old has had access to iPads since she was 2. We gave her our iPad 1 when my wife upgraded to something newer, around the age of 3-1/2. She has a collection of movies, games, and kids e-books on it. The games are mostly educational, and because this is iOS, they are incredibly well designed. She has some Disney movies and kids TV shows, and this serves as entertainment on long drives and restaurant waits. She has education apps that help with writing letters, etc. We have taught her to treat the iPad delicately, and she does a great job of this. It has never been damaged. She also does not spend too much time on it. We don't usually have to remind her to put it down - she does so on her own. She is balanced, because we have enforced that approach and not gotten too hyper about any aspect of it.

Not all kids will be this easy to keep balanced, but I think this attitude to technology works well.
 
An office job involves all-day socialization? What century are you living in? In my world, an office job involves sitting in front of a computer for 90% of the day and having the occasional small talk with your cube neighbors. Unless you're a middle manager that needs to cover up the fact that you really don't do any work by scheduling meetings all day, this is pretty much what the corporate world is like.

I love this post - so true. Made my day.
 
An office job involves all-day socialization? What century are you living in? In my world, an office job involves sitting in front of a computer for 90% of the day and having the occasional small talk with your cube neighbors. Unless you're a middle manager that needs to cover up the fact that you really don't do any work by scheduling meetings all day, this is pretty much what the corporate world is like.

So much truth in this post. It is why I love the fact my job has me in the field 95% of the time. I get to actually meet and talk to people without technology between us.
 
My 11yr and 9yr old have iPhone 4s and also have iPads and android tablets. Our 2 year old uses the iPad 2. But will be getting him the retina mini because he likes my Nexus 7 more due to it being easier to hold for him.
At 2 he knows where the Disney app is and knows which videos he wants to watch by swiping back and forth.

It's a hand me down thing. When me or the wife upgrade we give it to the kids. I would never go out and buy them a brand new device at this age.

I do agree that sometimes I feel like my kids are spoiled, but when they bring home the straight A's I don't feel so bad. As long as it doesn't hinder their studies it shouldn't matter.
My only issue now is the 11yr old likes to be on his iPhone when he should be sleeping.
 
I've definitely noticed this, and it completely baffles me as I just got my first iPad at the age of twenty one. My seven year old niece has been begging for an iPad because all of her friends have one, and her mother has just given her her old iPhone to use for games. There is no way they need such expensive and advanced tablets for gaming usage, which is the primary use according to my niece. They make low cost tablets that have strict privacy settings that I think are much more suitable.

I think parents only succumb to this due to kids begging to keep up with the newest thing and the endless commercials that show iPad apps that relate to tv shows and toys.
Low cost??tablets? News flash they are useless. iPads and Mac's are used in public schools. Why would I get my kids anything other than apple products? By they way my 4 & 14 year old have iPads and they spend most of their time on learning apps not games.
 
It's always a very hot debate when it comes to electronics and children. The one thing that seems to get in the way of the debate is the price of expensive electronics. To me the monetary cost of these gadgets is tiny compare to the child development cost. Let me elaborate.

Whatever a child spend the time on, it's at the cost of not spending the time on something else: being with friends, playing imagery games, thinking about things, being bored and coming up with something to pass the time, etc.

Some people think that it's important for a child to be adept at using gadgets, others think that there is no need for that at a young age and it's more important to spend time learning about the physical world and social skills, which is extremely important at the early development stage, just like language, and if neglected, can never be recovered.

I agree with the second group. I think there is no danger of a child born in this era not savvy with gadgets as there is really no practical way to isolate them from such devices. But a child spending too much time with gadgets in stead of the physical world is missing out on crucial development.

As much information we can get at our finger tip easily, our developed brain is the most important tool we have as without it, we are merely robots.
 
Kids pick up tech VERY easily.

My 20-month-old can turn on and unlock my iPad; then open Photos, pick an album and start swiping the pictures (or playing a video). When she's done, she knows she can swat the screen (her "5-finger gesture" action) to get out of that album and select another.

My wife and I really restrict her iPad use (literally minutes a week) but she watches us and catches on. Kids and technology really do seem to go well together.
 
My 20-month-old can turn on and unlock my iPad; then open Photos, pick an album and start swiping the pictures (or playing a video). When she's done, she knows she can swat the screen (her "5-finger gesture" action) to get out of that album and select another.

My wife and I really restrict her iPad use (literally minutes a week) but she watches us and catches on. Kids and technology really do seem to go well together.

It's pretty incredible, isn't it?
 
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