...So the new iPad being hotter will be a problem for us, because we arent used to it.
I have all three... Saying it performs different...ok. Saying it's a "
problem" is quite another. If the new iPad has a problem...so does every flippin' laptop, ultra book, netbook, tablet, etc with any more horsepower than a graphing calculator.
You'd be the stupid one if you're implying anything else. It's hotter than the others who have half the backlight, GPU, and battery...so flippin' what captain obvious? It's still not hot enough to be of any issue in real world usage. Maybe if every other post on this site wasn't from peeps bitchin, moanin, pissin, or complaining about every little nitpicking thing that the media can think of to blow up then folks like me who've been around since the PowerPC days wouldn't be so equally ornery.
Let's just get it out there...
Is the "new" iPad perfect? No. Is it hotter in operation than previous versions? Yes.
Has Apple had some issues with display quality? Anecdotally...perhaps...but no more so than any other company producing who is shipping the same number of units would have/has had IMHO.
Is the "new" iPad some kind of second coming in the name of all that is tablet holy? Uh...no...no it's not. But it is a nice upgrade just in the screen itself, and if you're coming from the first gen it's a no-brainer upgrade.
Pure and simple...if you don't like the Apple ecosystem, the Apple "mentality", the way Apple products work, feel, perform, etc... By all means return your piece of flawed technology and go purchase one of the many fine Android tablets currently on the market (this is not patronizing by the way...I quite like many of the 'droid tablets...specifically the Prime). You'll be happier, the folks that believe in the "Apple way" will be happier, and everyone will get along just fine.