Again, for those using Safari reloads as a measure of RAM available, I'm getting more and more confident there is a bug of some sort. See my earlier post where on a fresh reboot 10 tabs loaded with no reloads and I then opened all my most memory intensive programs and still couldn't get a reload.
Where I DO get reloads is after Safari has been open a day or so. Then, even with just 4 tabs open, it starts reloading every tab every time, even if I quit a bunch of other programs. Tonight, I quit Safari when it started doing that, and the reloads have gone away. Even with 8 tabs on intensive sites, the reloads are far less frequent. The problem seems to be more Safari than the ipad.