So I just followed this thread and had to giggle all the way:
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We have been around since September 2007
Check out our videos, you will be able to see - that what you are asking for works just fine
Example, I can work on my MacBook Pro at the same time as somebody else ( or even more ) is using my system in the background session. There is a 30 Day trial of the iRAPP
Terminal Server - that is probably a better solution for you if you need more than 1 person to connect to your machine.
I also saw that somebody metioned RedStone Software / now Test Plant in an earlier post.
They use our solution to deliver OS X Applications to Windows Enterprises!
Via:
iRAPP Glove
Here is their Example usage:
RiTA
Or view it here in action:
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