Hi,
With the 2013 13-inch Haswell rMBP it is possible to run at 3840x2160 or 1080P HiDPI over DisplayPort at 52Hz. This is because the max clock rate for the 13-inch over thunderbolt 2 is 450 MHz.
To get this resolution, use the settings in the screenshot I've made with switchresx (attached).
If you want 60Hz or even higher HiDPI settings, you can do this via picture by picture mode with a DP and a HDMI connector. There's an extensive thread on this in this forum.
Edit.. And yes, I did this with the same monitor you're using!
I just purchased a Dell p2715q and am trying to set it up with my Early 2013 Retina MacBook Pro. I'm connecting to the monitor via a HDMI > Mini Display Port cable. I've disabled the SIP, installed SwitchResX and set up a new resolution as per the screenshot attached. Unfortunately, when I reboot and go back into SwitchResX it is not possible to active the custom resolution - the app gives an error "invalid resolution" ...if anyone has run into this problem (I'm running version 4.6) help would be appreciated! Everything is displaying as unacceptably fuzzy for a Retina-quality monitor and I'm about ready to send it back.