lol that went right over your head...It's different for women, though, because they are more likely to carry their phone in a bag while men are more likely to carry theirs in a pocket.
I used to think the Plus model was humongous, but I wanted better battery life after having my 6s dying or very low on me at the end of the day and decided to upgrade. I quickly got used to the size and can never see myself going back to a smaller phone now. The Plus model seems like the "normal" size to me now.
I had a 6S+ for about 8 months and thought it was fine in winter when I wore a jacket, however, as the weather improved the size became more and more inconvenient and it eventually got to the point that the extra size simply wasn't worth the hassle.
I ended up getting an SE and it's the best decision I ever made: I can still do everything on it I could on my 6S+ with the added benefit that it's easy to carry in my jeans, shorts, etc and is far more convenient than the bulky plus sized phones
I can fit the phone OK in my pants, but I'm finding myself removing the phone almost every time I sit down.