All this stuff doesn't matter. We argue about things of minuscule weight and they worth (in money terms you have to pay) $50-100-200 or more a piece.
There is so much options, but look at them- 2.4 vs 2.5; 256Mb vs 512; regular memory vs low latency, 5200 vs 7200rpm. Might be everything combined would matter more than just adding one of them or just plain stock, but is it worth to spend so much?
for example low latency 4GB memory $78 vs $70 for regular 4GB.
processor and memory upgrade would cost you $200 for older mbp and whooping $500 for new model, OK it would be fair subtract $60-70 for 4 Gb of memory.
For $110 you can upgrade to 7200 rpm HD.
So is minor speed bump worth $388 - 610 ?
Hell at these prices you are very close to mac pro. Of course it would cost you more to add monitor and so on, but it is years ahead for expanding and please, people, don't brag about future, that we will have 10 processors or whatever in one chip- by the time we will have 32Gb of memory will be cheap enough to upgrade mac pro to max.
Now we have completely different issue- portability. Everyone wants to get as much power in as much portable device as possible. But as desktop replacement laptops will lag all the time and in a future even more.
So if someone pays you, well get top of the shelf. In all other cases regular stuff is good enough. Ken Rockwell still uses his 5 year old
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