A really demanding GF, what can I do??

[Eddyisgreat]

I don't think anyone dating should spend that kind of money on one another. That's just my opinion though, but I think it's a logical one.

Curious as to why you think this? Certianly a top of the line macbook isn't cheap but i'm sure this guy hasn't been dating for six months unless he's whipped. Doubly true when people who have been dating for a very short time (less than a year or so) are having kids together (though nothing is wrong with this).

But when you can find a femmenerd i'd consider this an investment

 

[K3mp]

I ordered my 2.8 MBP Sunday and it came in today for Christmas. On apple's website today at 10 AM PST was the deadline for the popular configuration Mac's.

 

[Osprey]

If it makes you feel any better, I would say the same to a female asking about buying her boyfriend a top spec MBP. I don't think anyone dating should spend that kind of money on one another. That's just my opinion though, but I think it's a logical one.

Oh I think that I probably agree with you on that, although I have no way of knowing the specifics of their relationship and it is his decision. However; several posts questioned the need for her to require the top of the line and I don't think rather you are male or female would be the determining factor, but more about what the person is going to use it for.

 

[cg165]

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I don't think anyone dating should spend that kind of money on one another. That's just my opinion though, but I think it's a logical one.

Curious as to why you think this? Certianly a top of the line macbook isn't cheap but i'm sure this guy hasn't been dating for six months unless he's whipped. Doubly true when people who have been dating for a very short time (less than a year or so) are having kids together (though nothing is wrong with this).

But when you can find a femmenerd i'd consider this an investment

Well, I don't know the specifics of their relationship, but if he's buying nearly $3,000 things for Christmas now, he's setting the bar. If you plan on spending the rest of your life with someone, there will be lots of birthdays and holidays to get her whatever. Uhh plus they could break up lol.

We still don't know what she will use it for or if she needs the 2.8 or wants it. It isn't up to me, but the op asked what we thought (or if not I'm telling him either way haha). He's talking about a top spec mbp not mb which is a big deal to me at least.

 

[cg165]

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If it makes you feel any better, I would say the same to a female asking about buying her boyfriend a top spec MBP. I don't think anyone dating should spend that kind of money on one another. That's just my opinion though, but I think it's a logical one.

Oh I think that I probably agree with you on that, although I have no way of knowing the specifics of their relationship and it is his decision. However; several posts questioned the need for her to require the top of the line and I don't think rather you are male or female would be the determining factor, but more about what the person is going to use it for.

Yeah, oddly enough he hasn't responded to say what she would be using it for.

 

[Consultant]

Write her a note "I owe you a MBP, customized after the holidays",
packed within a PPP Powerbook

I am sure she'll understand that a custom one can't be delivered in time. Or get the highest regular one.

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Yeah, oddly enough he hasn't responded to say what she would be using it for.

PRON!!!

 

[clyde2801]

Not wanting to be shallow, but is this girl a mega hottie?

 

[nope7308]

2 Words:
HIGH MAINTENANCE

Anyone who requests a maxed out MBP is clearly thinking about themselves, and themselves only. If she provided you with unwavering support, then you should be giving her a sentimental gift that won't depreciate in value over the years. Seriously, though, spending $3000+ is not showing your love. If she really cared, I don't think she would have put you in this situation in the first place.

I wouldn't buy my own mother a maxed out MBP... I suggest you run for the hills before she starts requesting a new fully loaded BMW!

 

[Beau10]

2 Words:
HIGH MAINTENANCE

If we're talking about your average person sure why not...

But in the land of Apple, you often encounter people with high bankrolls. Who knows, maybe the OP and his girl are both surgeons, maybe $3k isn't such a big deal. Maybe she's getting him a dirt bike for xmas.

In any case, this isn't why he came here, you know, relationship advice, lol..

 

[SnowLeopard2008]

If I got my ex-gf a MacBook (lowest configuration) she'd be thrilled. A MBP is overkill unless she needs it or she's like the sexiest female on your side of the planet.

 

[mox123]

hmmm....gold digger?

 

[naid]

If she's a geek, maybe she can put a maxed-out MBP to good use... you never know.

But if she doesn't want to wait for a custom-built one, get her a 2.53 from the Apple store, it's powerful enough.

 

[Big-TDI-Guy]

I apologize in advance for this - but after the title of this thread capturing my attention over and over - I must give in to my inane desires.

Q: A really demanding GF, what can you do?

A: Give her sexy-time. ®


Ahh, to be 12 years old.

 

[digitard]

In all fairness, as mentioned above, we have no idea their situation. His GF could be of 5yrs, and they haven't set the knot yet til "X" life situation is met. Ya know?

I have a friend who JUST got married, but was with his gf for 10yrs, and only engaged the last 2yrs. I've known both of them for a long time, and they were simply waiting for a few specific things in life to fall into place, and once they did he proposed, and the ball got rolling.

My wife want's my MBP now, well her own, after playing with mine yesterday...lol.

D.

 

[brad.c]

Honestly, I can't justify bleeding edge specs for MY MBP, let alone for somebody else. Since the reason for the power hasn't been explained, I would assume she's either:
1. A spec junky. Give her the top shelf stock model, and test out her ability to adapt to reality.
2. A professional who needs it for business. In that case, buy it in your name, and lease it to her so she can write off the business expense.

Again, I don't know the particulars of your relationship, nor your financial situation (if you can easily afford it, but are just being prudent and researching the options, or are going to rack up some debt to pull it off) but if being unrealistically demanding is a common theme, I second the motion:

I've got the perfect solution, actually. She wants a top-spec MBP?

Break up with her.

 

[7even]

Just get her a 2.53, if you're willing.

 

[Jiten]

A woman who wants a top end Macbook Pro?!! Who does she think she is?! Burn the witch!!!

 

[DYER]

Hi guys, just back from the last assignment of the year and back to the civilised world (i.e. where room temperature is above 22C), so that I can spend the xmas with my GF.

Now, since she has always been really supportive, I am thinking to get her a MBP, and I ask her whether it is a good idea (we are grown-ups, so we can discuss that kind of thing before Santa arrives)

Now, the problem is, she wants a TOP SPEC MBP

Two Problems:

1. Now I realise She is more of a Geek than I am

2. I want to get it for her for Xmas, and tomorrow is Christmas Eve


is it possible to get the TOP SPEC MBP in the three Apple Stores in London?? (Regent Street, Westfield, Brent Cross)??


Any practical advise to lighten up my GF's holiday will be truly appreciated

Cheers guys

Hi mate I know it is a little late but i know none of the london apple stores carry the 2.8 i found it annoying as hell as i had to wait 3 weeks to get mien

 

[kockgunner]

2 Words:
HIGH MAINTENANCE

Anyone who requests a maxed out MBP is clearly thinking about themselves, and themselves only. If she provided you with unwavering support, then you should be giving her a sentimental gift that won't depreciate in value over the years. Seriously, though, spending $3000+ is not showing your love. If she really cared, I don't think she would have put you in this situation in the first place.

I wouldn't buy my own mother a maxed out MBP... I suggest you run for the hills before she starts requesting a new fully loaded BMW!

I totally agree with every single word you say. I personally believe NO ONE needs a fully maxed out Macbook Pro. Those few megahertz are for people who just want top specs. She shouldn't be asking you for something that expensive. Anyone with a hint of humility would ask for the lowest spec Macbook Pro at most, not the frivolous top of the line computer. Unless she needs to encode video and save 4 minutes of waiting or work with 100 megapixel images in Photoshop, no one needs a top of the line Macbook Pro.

Even people with high bankrolls have some perspective of money.

If you insist on getting her a Macbook Pro, get her the basemodel one and say you didn't want her to wait a few weeks to get her a Macbook Pro. You'll save money that way.

 

[jjahshik32]

I know it might be too late but you can order one online and send your g/f via email the order receipt of the 2.8ghz mbp (kind of a surprise email christmas day surprise).

 

[munkery]

"Crush your enemies, see them driven brefore you, and to hear the lamentation of the women!" Conan's response to what is best in life.

Ponder this and all your questions, especially in regards to this thread, shall be answered.

 

[jjahshik32]

Or you can get a new girlfriend who isnt a geek and probably will be happy with a $1000 tennis bracelet.

 

[Son of Matrix]

I thought I read 'demeaning'...

Merry Christmas everyone! I myself bought my gf a macbook. A refurbished blackbook one that cost £699...https://forums.macrumors.com/threads/592226/

She's very happy with it. The refurbished one does look like a new one. No problem with it.

I think it's important to know what your gf will use it for...top end macbook pro, i don't think it's worth the money...

Plus generally for females, they prefer to carry lighter laptops...before you know it, she will ask for a smaller laptop for her to carry around..hhhaha..then she might ask for a macbook...

Does she really know the difference of macbook and macbook pro? I hope you have a lot of money...buying macbook pro costs life..hahaha...

You have really put yourself into a tight spot. Please also consider and prepare yourself for this. Buying her a macbook pro doesn't mean she will stay with you forever. So once you buy it, be prepared to lose all the 'investment' into the macbook pro. For me, I am prepared to lose all as I want to buy it for her as a friend as well.

Good luck and Merry Christmas!

 

[SchneiderMan]

i could just be a big waste of money for a top spec mbp, talk to her before you get a mbp. You will be better buying a 2.5 with 4gb ram..

 

[fteoath64]

Not wanting to be shallow, but is this girl a mega hottie?

Was thinking the same thing. Is she Elizabeth Hurley ?. Oh, sorry she's taken!...

The new MBA 120HDD version is great value and way more suitable. It can even do studio work as one person attests.