Try thinking of it this way:
I've got an iPhone 4. It doesn't work as advertised, so I'm stating a fact - a positive. And I'm not alone, and other people are pointing out that they too are having problems with their phones - all statements of positive fact
in our specific situations and with our specific experience. That's a very important distinction there...
People out there not having issues with their iPhones don't always come at it from the perspective of "Ok, my iPhone 4 is perfect, I have no problems with it at all" which is positive, they could make such a statement and nobody realistically can call them on it. But it's when they take it a step further and say basically the same thing but add in that little negative at the end:
"Ok, my iPhone 4 is perfect, I have no problems with it at all, and anyone that says they're having problems is crazy" or adding anything past the positive that turns the entire statement into a slam.
I got no beef with people that have no problems at all, I congratulate them on a regular basis (pretty much every time someone admits or states they're not having problems) - it's the ones that take it that step further and turn a positive statement into a slam against those of us that do have problems.
Your iPhone 4 works? No problems at all? Man, lucky you, congrats. Mine is pooched. No, seriously, it is. No, I'm not crazy, no I'm not returning it, no I'm not slapping a case on it, etc etc.
They don't really have to defend that the phone works for them - that's the natural state of the device, as it should be. So why do we people having problems have to defend that yes we're having problems?
Is it so difficult to believe that Apple has potentially (important word there) made a rookie error and let this product come to market with some issues that could be causing some of us problems?
Anybody that says "No, it's not possible" is simply stupid, and ignorant to boot on top of it because they're dismissing actual first-hand reports (no pun intended) of people not being able to use the iPhone 4 in their hands which is pretty bad considering it's a hand-held cellular phone.
The prevalent attitude of many iPhone 4 owners that are bothering to comment in a negative fashion is something like this: "My iPhone 4 works flawlessly, therefore all iPhone 4's must work the same way" and they aren't even going to budge on that one, ever, so I don't even try. I just tell 'em "Hey, good for you, but I am having issues" and that pretty much covers it, sometimes with a lot of words, sometimes with a few.
I type
really fast...
