I appreciate the non-snarky review, especially from someone that had similar concerns. People are so quick to dismiss valid concerns and rush to the defense of any criticism toward Apple.I thought the lack of volume control during a phone call would've been a big deal for me but it really hasn't. If I need volume control during a call i find its no more than one adjustment per call on average. I'll just hit the keys on the phone, one small sacrifice for true wireless EarPods. The headphones are great man, get yourself a pair. They carry more bass than the standard EarPods, they sound pretty good, well balanced.
That said, I think the lack of the volume control will have a greater impact with me, than it did with your. As Apple themselves advertise, I wanted to be able to keep my phone in my pocket, glove box, or book bag, and be able to answer a phone call. But, if you need to adjust the volume you are screwed, which for me happens much more with phone calls than music. This is especially true while driving, it would have been nice to store my phone away, and be able to answer calls using an in-ear headset.
I love my EarBuds, and use them all the time for phone calls. I would love to have wireless version of them, but the AirPods are not them.
There are plenty of wireless headsets that have volume buttons. Are they Apple's quality, maybe not, but having volume adjustment on wireless headsets have been around for a while.And they also include a cord! What a bargain