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Am i a bad person?

I wonder if the original poster still reads this thread?

How would you feel if your wife/partner/etc. was out doing this behind your back?

I personally don't agree with what you're doing, but who gives me the right to judge?
 
There is a big chance your friend will regret it. He will feel like the biggest idiot, loser and ******* in the world. For hurting someone he cares about, and for ****ing things up for himself. But it will be too late. Believe me, I've learnt that the hard way.

I understand if it looks like having harmless fun to you, and who are you to lecture him?. But not only it's immoral, it WILL turn around on him one day. If he's your friend, you should do the right thing. Make him understand what's at stake.

Ofcourse, it could also be that he just doesn't care about her. Should they be together in the first place? But that's a whole different story.
 
I grew up with my friend Fred. We're like brothers. A few years ago he had an affair, there was a divorce, and there were children involved. I understood he was unhappy, but I can never forgive him for what he did to his family. He's still like a brother and we see each other. The dfifference here is that I didn't take him out to get laid while he was married. There are a few things I feel that are sacred, and the responsability to your family is first.
So by the other posts it's pretty clear that you are a worm in the eyes of the majority. No you can decide what you need to do about it. I have no suggestions; you'll have to figure out for yourself how you can keep your ass from burning in hell.
(I don't beleive in hell, but it sounds good!)
 
crazycat said:
I have a friend of mine who cheats on his wife all the time, we go to bars pick up girls and are active in the dating world the only difference is he is married I am not. For some reason I don’t feel bad about it, it does not bother me I kinda like it since we are best friends since ever.

I know I am not a bad person, I go out of my way to help people and I don’t have evil thoughts in my head. I am always nice to people, I never wished people harm even thou some people I met should be harmed.

What do you guys think I was just thinking about it and would like a difference opinion from mine.
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This does not make you a bad person if you yourself are not committing the cheating. Since you apparently realize your friend's fault, you are obviously the wiser. You should try and set things right based on your core beliefs. Follow your sense of integrity. If it got you to write that comment, it can set everything right. Then you won't be worrying.
 
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