and I've said this a jullincbazillinctimes... your mileage may vary. You lost me when you said nothing you do is better on the X than your 6S plus... maybe if you want to debate the xs and the x.. but the 6s plus?! That experience was night and day different for me, much faster, much more fluid on the X. Clearly what I appreciate is not the same as you. And thats fine. I won't map my expectations on you and please vica versa.. but to claim no real difference between the two? Silly. Now... as far as the XS and X... they are not the same.. close for some people, maybe even identical for those with low expectations, but for me... the XS is faster, hooks up to networks faster for me, and the camera effects are faster more fluid as well. Shrugs. But sure specs don't matter. until they do.
To be clear, the reason I quoted you is because I believe people saying the X and Xs are the same are saying so from the same mindset that I am, not because they're trying to invalidate your own opinions or experience of a product.
I don't feel I'm doing anything faster on the X than I was in the 6s plus. I used to be the guy that upgraded yearly. And I did feel tangible differences with each annual upgrade. Not anymore. I will concede that photos are a good deal improved without any additional effort from me. That's been a nice change especially since my main camera is my iPhone camera.
We all justify things different ways. Me? I'm happy we are where we are with phones. They've gotten much more expensive, but I also can't find reasons to upgrade like I used to. iOS 12, while it brought very few feature changes, gave me a whole new outlook on iPhone. In many ways I feel it is the best version of iOS we've seen in easily half a decade. And a lot of that has to do with the very fact that I'm seeing older hardware achieve day to day tasks at effectively the same pace as the newer hardware.
As an aside, I have my son's SE right here on iOS 12. Every app I try loads within milliseconds of each other. Amazingly the SE camera even loads a split second faster. And that's all the same hardware the 6s plus had, if I'm not mistaken. That's what's amazing about apple's hardware and software today. It's miles ahead of where it was half a decade ago, and it's longevity proves it.
If you were to go back and read a number of my previous comments in this forum, you'll see the trend that I honestly do feel the X didn't tangible improve my experience aside from getting rid of that pesky home button I had long loathed. It's my experience, and I've stayed consistent. Most phones I replace I don't give a second thought. I think that has to do with where Apple has come with their microprocessors, and of course their software they're all married to. My experience is a much a testament to apple's software design and hardware engineering as is yours, despite us ultimately reaching different conclusions.