Personally, I would *not* want a blinking indicator light. It's too Blackberry for my taste. Also, I have enough (personal) issues constantly checking my iphone for new messages, emails, etc. already. I don't want yet another reason to constantly check my iPhone.
I have enough distractions in my life. LOL.
To each their own.
w00master
While I understand you not wanting the distraction, these options should be able to be turned off or on by the user (simple options the way Apple likes it). But while you may not WANT it, there is no denying these are important features for people who use their phone for work and NEED to know when they have specific messages. They shouldn't have to continuously turn on their phone, unlock it, scroll to the page that has their SMS or Email icon and check to see if it has a number badge on it. That's not a practical solution.
You saying you don't want to have to continuously check your email is the same thing as someone else saying they don't want email on their phone at all b/c they don't want to be bothered with it when they're away from their desk. Yes, it's an opinion but it's not a solution or even practical. The option SHOULD be there and it should be your choice whether to use it or not (just like email is now).