OK , to lose weight safely it will require hard work and dedication & willpower ..without any of these things you WILL fail.
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Eat little and often , this raises your metabolic rate .(I eat about 6 - 7 times a day ) do NOT anything at all 2 hours before bed as this lets all the food digest in your gut properly before sleeping , thus letting you sleep easy and wake refreshed which gives more energy for the walking /exercise making it part easier .
what you do eat is critical , get your fat from nuts ,you need fat !!!!
eat plenty and I do mean plenty of green leafy veg and a considerable amount of veg of varying colours (organic if budget/time allows)
eat more fish , less meat and walk AT LEAST 10,000 steps per day , yes I said per day .
try to eat things that don't come in packets , difficult I know but it CAN be done ...I do it so...so can you .
no fizzy drinks etc ie nothing from packets /tins /cans etc etc
take a month or so at least IF you stick to it but everyone is different so give or take
you will feel like a mess at first , probably get loads of spots and feel sick too while your body rids of toxins but after that .......
oh , and leave the coffee and tea alone too , go herbal ....add no sweetners to drinks /food but if you have too add honey only and only a little occasionally (like once a week) & plenty of water sipped through out the day of course .
peace & good luck