Did the things that you and I have done ruin us as people? No. Like everyone else growing up, we made mistakes. But we were able to make those mistakes and we learned from them.
If you had a trusting relationship with your child (one that would only exist without the use of invasive "big-brother" tactics) perhaps your child wouldn't need hide his/her feelings behind a blog and would be open with you about their feelings?
The second your start monitoring your chilld's every keystroke, every movement via GPS, etc, you're telling them that you absolutely do not trust them.
With that kind of relationship, which is a very poor, ineffective, and harmful one, no wonder the child would resort to blogs - they'd have no one else they could trust.
Spying on your children is not being someone who "listens." If you had established trust as a parent, the child wouldn't have the problem of not having someone who would listen.
By eavesdropping them and shutting them out to a place only blogs exist, then listening in onto the bad things they may be blogging, you are not only learning about the problem, you are causing it.
Typical authoriatian scheme. Create a problem, witness the problem, then propose a solution to the problem in an attempt to gain trust.
Works for dictators and corrupt governments, not so good for parents.
Because too many children were raised in zero-trust environments, and as such grew up into adults that couldn't trust anyone either.
There is a difference between blind privacy and mutual trust. It is a significant difference.
Of course I don't see your point of view - it's absurd, developmentally harmful, and ineffecient for the goal in context.
If you notice, there are several others here who are opposed to your view as well. Please take that for what it's worth.